Filipino Frugal Hacks That Will Save You Money (And Help the Environment!)

Filipinos are naturally frugal. Being frugal has such a negative connotation but it’s actually a smart and practical lifestyle. It helps us save money to put towards things like paying down debt, supporting our families, and saving for our future or goals. 

Nowadays, the high cost of living is forcing many people to rethink their current spending habits. You may have found this article because you’re trying to find ways to save money too. 

Frugality doesn’t have to be extreme or crazy. It doesn’t have to be hard or painful. Most of the hacks I’ll describe below are also eco-friendly. By making these small changes, you can make a big impact on your wallet and on the environment. 

1. Stock Up on Sales

I am not sure if this is a Filipino thing, an Asian thing, or we just like sales but, whenever things are on sale, we stock up. If there’s no expiration date or it is years away, why not stock up when prices are lower? 

It doesn’t take me long to peruse weekly ads to find good deals and save money on groceries. I like to stock up on meat at Whole Foods because they’re animal welfare certified and organic. I also buy in bulk at Sam’s Club and Costco especially when things like diapers, baby wipes, and rice are on sale. 

The trick is to bulk buy things you use on a regular basis. Don’t buy ten cans of olives if you don’t use it. It’s going to go to waste and you’ll be throwing away money that you may have saved from these sales.  

Also, use an app like Ibotta to save even more money by getting cashback on your purchases. 

2. Homemade Meals

Filipinos are great cooks and many of us learn to cook at a young age. If you haven’t learned to cook, it’s a good time to start now. You could try a meal kit delivery service like Blue Apron to help you get comfortable in the kitchen first before expanding to your favorite dishes on your own. 

When cooking, it’s important to make large batches of food so you can have several meals throughout the week. Set aside a couple hours on Sunday to meal prep for the week. 

You can also use my FREE Mix and Match Meal Planner to help you figure out your weekly meals based on what you have in your fridge or pantry. Download it below.

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Cooking at home will save you a lot of money that you can put towards your goals. You’ll also eat healthier since you are the one making decisions about what you want to eat versus being limited or tempted by unhealthy restaurant options near or at your work. 

In addition, it helps the environment because you’ll reduce the amount of disposable utensils and paper products you use whenever you eat out.

3. Embrace Leftovers

According to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, Americans threw away 133 billion pounds and $161 billion worth of food in 2010. Imagine how much more we are throwing away today. This is probably why Filipinos love leftovers. We don’t like to see money and food go to waste

We like to make big batches of food at home to eat leftovers for days and we like to take home our leftover food from restaurants when we go out to eat. You’ll also never go hungry when you’re invited to a Filipino party or dinner because there will usually be extra food for you to take home.

Eating leftovers keeps more money in your pocket but it’s also good for the environment because you reduce food waste. Just make sure to practice proper food safety when handling leftovers so you don’t get yourself or others sick. 

4. Grow Your Own Food

Many immigrant families in Hawaii grow food in their backyard. University of Hawaii at Manoa researchers were even surprised to find that a third of the places they surveyed had urban gardens. Growing our own food is one way we save money on groceries

According to an article by The Penny Hoarder, a small garden can provide a family $600 worth of fresh groceries. The trick is to grow things that you eat on a regular basis and that costs a lot of money at the grocery store. 

One of the small plants that my husband and son have been growing for these past few months are cherry tomatoes. One plant cost $5 at Home Depot while one container of picked cherry tomatoes cost ~$5 at Target. When grown correctly, the plant will continue to yield tomatoes for many years to come saving you money. 

If you’re a beginner, get this Garden Outside of the Box subscription. You’ll learn how to garden organic, non-GMO vegetables and herbs and you don’t even need a yard to do this. 

For a simpler option, try growing small herbs like basil, mint, and cilantro with the Back to the Roots Herb Kit. You can easily grow this on a windowsill. 

save money by growing your old food
My husband is growing green onions and lettuce from cuttings. We also recently got a basil plant that is currently growing in a used Trader Joe’s face scrub container!

5. Reuse Containers

Filipinos are known for keeping and reusing containers for ice cream, cookies, butter, and pasta sauce. The comedian Jo Koy even featured this in one of his youtube videos below:

This practice drives our family members crazy sometimes especially when you think you’re opening a container of cookies but you find sewing supplies. However, this is a practical and eco-friendly storage solution. Most importantly, it’s free! 

Like Jokoy, I use a cookie container for our sewing supplies and Daisy sour cream containers for my homemade guacamole. I also have Talenti gelato containers that are several years old because they’re great for on the go smoothies or homemade ice cream. 

However, my favorite containers are those from California Pizza Kitchen (CPK). They look like the meal prep containers that we bought several years ago and they’re microwavable! 

If you look closely at a container, you can even find that some containers are dishwasher safe, freezer safe, and microwavable. 

We really have a hard time throwing things away because they might be useful someday. Raise your hand if you’re like me!

The trick to keep from hoarding all of these containers is to give them away! When I have extra food to share with my friends, I use these containers. 

Sure, it’s weird to see curry in a container of butter but at least I don’t have to worry about them returning the container. It’s up to them if they want to keep it or throw it away. At least it was used one more time before going in the trash. 

One other hack is to keep large liter soda bottles and milk gallons for used cooking oil. Once the used cooking oil has fully cooled, pour it into the bottle. 

As soon as the bottle is full, you can dispose of it in the trash. This keeps you from clogging your pipes with used oil and from harming the sewage system

6. Reuse plastic bags

Filipinos are also good about reusing plastic bags. Our family uses reusable grocery bags when shopping but when we get plastic bags from takeout or other sources, we keep these. 

These plastic bags are used for smaller trash cans like those in the bathroom or for our wet clothes when we go to the beach. It can even be used to carry the food mentioned above! 

I even kept gift bags from my baby shower and birthdays to give away used clothing and baby supplies that my son outgrew. We try to reuse these different bags at least one more time before throwing it away. 

7. Save Takeout Utensils and Condiments

When ordering takeout or drive through, we often end up with extra utensils and condiments. I try not to get more than I need to reduce plastic waste. However, even if we didn’t ask for them, restaurants tend to pack them in our to-go bags. 

Instead of throwing them away, I usually keep these. I leave takeout utensils and napkins at work and in our car in case we need them while eating on the go. 

I keep condiment packets like ketchup and soy sauce at work or pack them with my lunch. They’re even useful in a pinch when you run out and can’t go to the store. 

We keep a small bowl on top of the microwave for these utensils and condiments so we make sure to use it up and not let it go to waste.

8. Lengthen the Life of Household Products

When we’re at the last few drops of a product, we usually add some water to extend its use. We usually do this for dish soap, laundry soap, facewash, body wash, shampoo, and conditioner. 

Add a few tablespoons of water in the container, shake it, then use the product as you normally do. Do not add too much water that you fully dilute the product. You just want to add enough that you can use up whatever’s left in the container. 

I also add some water to pasta containers or canned sauces to get those last few bits that you can’t easily get with a spoon. If the container can’t be covered, such as an open can, I use a spatula to whisk the water and sauce inside the can so I can the sauce in the little corners.

For things like lotion or toothpaste where you can’t add water, I usually use scissors to cut it open so I can reach in and get whatever’s left in the container. You won’t believe how much lotion is left in a container that the pump can’t reach. 

9. DIY 

The last Filipino hack that I have for you to save money is to DIY as much as possible. Learn how to cook, grow your old food, change the oil in your car, sew, craft, and fix household items and applicants. 

You’ll save money when you don’t have to pay others to fix these for you and you’ll also save money (and the environment) by extending the life of the products you have instead of buying new items. 

For example, instead of buying rags to clean your car or kitchen, you can repurpose old shirts by cutting them up into small pieces. You can throw it away once it starts to break down. 

To start you off, you sign up for a subscription via CrateJoy to learn to sew, knit or crochet, or even DIY your own skincare products. Once you master the basics, you can expand to DIY-ing your own products at home to save money. 

10. Tabo for Cleaning

You can find a tabo in almost every Filipino bathroom. Typically made of plastic, a tabo is basically a large ladle that you use to clean yourself after using the bathroom or when showering. You can also use it to flush the toilet if you do it correctly. 

I was surprised to find that Amazon sells tabo online. However, you can find something similar at your local dollar store so I personally wouldn’t pay more than $2 for it. If this is out of your comfort zone, you could always get a bidet that gets the same job done. 

A tabo helps to reduce the amount of water you waste when flushing toilets and taking baths. According to the WaterCalculator.org, an average bath uses 35-50 gallons of water while a 10-minute shower with a low-flow showerhead uses only 25 gallons. 

There is currently no data for tabo use but it’s pretty easy to calculate. If one tabo equals one liter and you scoop up water 10 times, you’ll still only use up 2.64 gallons when you shower. 

Using a tabo also reduces the amount of toilet paper used in a home. These savings can really add up over time for your pocket and for the environment. 

11. Hang Wash Clothes

Even if we have dryers, many of us Filipinos prefer to hang dry their clothes as much as possible. It helps clothes last longer and it’s eco-friendly. It’s pretty much summer all year round in Honolulu so our clothes dry within a day or so. 

We usually hang out clothes on hangers so it’s easy to put them straight in the closet. For small pieces like underwear, handkerchiefs, and socks, we use a foldable clip hanger. It has 26 clips so it can accommodate a lot of clothes. 

If you have a small place, you can even get a simple, foldable drying rack where you can hang delicate pieces that you don’t want to throw in the dryer. 

To be even more eco-friendly, we’ve been buying ECOS liquid laundry detergent because it’s biodegradable and safe for baby’s skin but it also removes stains while keeping our clothes soft and clean. 

Save Money and Save the Environment

Filipinos are creative in saving money but I never realized that a lot of the frugal hacks we have are also good for the environment. Take the time to incorporate at least one of these tips and see how much money you save. If anything, you’ll do your part to help the environment. 

Do you have any other frugal eco-friendly hacks that you use to save money? Comment below!

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Serious About Blogging? Legally Protect Your Blog Now

A few days ago, I read about a serious plagiarism issue that happened to a blogger in a Facebook group I’m in. A high profile influencer copied this blogger’s work word-for-word in an ebook that the influencer was selling. We found out that this influencer also copied printables and pins from others in the blogging community. The influencer blames her design team for this but it’s clear that this is not the first and last time that this will happen to bloggers. 

As a blogger and content creator, my work is out there for the public to read and use. I’m happy to create posts to help solve problems for my readers. However, this means that my content is also out there for people who may want to copy it without giving me credit or profit from it without my permission. This also means that me and my blog are vulnerable to lawsuits if I accidentally provide incorrect information or didn’t realize I didn’t comply with a specific law. 

In addition, as a new blogger (or even as a seasoned blogger), you’re constantly learning the in’s and out’s of blogging. For many of us, the rules and regulations surrounding copyright laws, affiliate disclosures, online products, and privacy laws are overwhelming but we don’t want to make the mistake of not having them on our site. We don’t have the time or trained expertise to understand the legal aspects of blogging. Frankly, if you’re like me, you’d prefer to do the fun stuff which is creating more content.

If you’re really serious about blogging, you must consider the legal and financial ramifications of what will happen if you get caught up in a lawsuit. This is why it’s important to have the correct legal pages on your website. You’ll have peace of mind that you and your blog are legally protected.

To help you understand the legal pages that you need to have on your website, I’ve interviewed Erika Kullberg. She’s an attorney who created a comprehensive and easy to use legal pages bundle for bloggers like me. In fact, I am currently using the legal bundle on my website. 

Please read her interview below:

Please introduce yourself.

Hi, I’m Erika Kullberg. I’m an attorney and the Founder of Plug and Law. I also have a growing YouTube channel with over 50,000 subscribers. 

After graduating from Georgetown Law, I went on to work for one of the top law firms in the world.  While I learned a lot, my passion has always been helping entrepreneurs, small business owners and creatives–so I left to start Plug and Law.  I love being able to serve people and help them to legally protect and grow their business with ease.  Our motto is “Legal Made Simple.”

Can you please describe why you decided to create this product and why we need these legal pages on our websites?

I decided to create the Legal Bundle so that people with a website can have the 3 essential legal pages they need in one package: a Privacy Policy, Terms & Conditions and Disclaimer.

  • A Privacy Policy is required by law. If you have a website, your visitors have a right to know how their information is being collected, used, and shared.  There are also various requirements that your Privacy Policy should comply with, such as the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) and California Consumer Privacy Act (CCPA).  
  • Terms & Conditions can be thought of as the “rules” of your website. They dictate how your website can and can’t be used.  More importantly, they also protect you from legal disputes.
  • A Disclaimer will also serve as a way to legally protect you, and ensure that you comply with requirements, such as from the Federal Trade Commission (FTC).  

I wanted to make it easy for bloggers, online business owners and entrepreneurs to get all 3 legal pages they need through the Legal Bundle, so they don’t have to worry about not being in compliance with various laws and regulations.  

Can’t I just DIY or use a free template on my website? 

There are two main reasons why I don’t recommend that people try the “DIY” approach to creating legal pages for their websites.  

The first problem is you’ll likely spend hours scouring the internet for different Privacy Policies, Terms & Conditions and Disclaimers to base yours off of. As a blogger or entrepreneur or business owner, your time is incredibly valuable–and I’m pretty sure you didn’t start your business to study legal requirements. 

The second issue is that even after you’ve spent hours trying to draft these legal pages yourself, you still can’t be certain that you’re actually protected. There are so many loopholes that could open you and your business up to liability. As an experienced lawyer, these are the loopholes that I know how to avoid. Particularly for the Privacy Policy, which is required by law, you don’t want to end up omitting necessary parts. 

Relying on free templates is also risky for a similar reason: you have no idea if you’ll be legally protected by using them. You also don’t know who actually drafted the free templates and if they are even qualified to do so.

Learn More About the Plug and Law Legal Bundle

The Plug and Law Legal Bundle has all of the essential legal pages needed to protect your blog or online business such as the Privacy Policy, Terms & Conditions, and Disclaimer. It is user-friendly that it only took me 10 minutes to add to my blog.  In addition, it’s comprehensive enough for new and advanced bloggers but easy for your readers to understand. 

You can learn more about the Plug and Law Legal Bundle at this link

Father’s Day Gift Guide Under $50

Mother’s Day just ended a few weeks ago and Father’s Day is coming up fast. Like many of you, I’ve been wracking my brain trying to figure out what to get for the dads in my life. What do you get a dad who has everything or a dad who doesn’t care what you get them? Below are some of my favorite Father’s Day finds under $50:

Multifunctional Emergency Radio and Flashlight

If your dad loves the outdoors, he will surely like the Eton Rugged Multipowerd Portable Emergency Weather Radio & Flashlight. This radio and flashlight runs on a rechargeable battery, hand crank, and solar. You can even use it to charge your phone. We have one at home in case of an emergency but you can take it on hikes, camping trips, or to the beach. Buy one for dad and one for you here

Bidet

 A bidet is an eco-friendly gift for dad and the rest of the family. You reduce the amount of toilet paper and you also save money. The Tibbers Bidet is self-cleaning, easy to install, and doesn’t need electricity. 

Bug Subscription Box

Is dad an adventurous eater? Check out Cratejoy’s Culinary Bug Box. Each month, dad will get a new box with edible insects to create some fun meals. If this is too crazy for dad, Cratejoy has a bunch of other food and drink subscription boxes that any dad will love. 

Hot/Cold Tumbler

Hydro Flask is one of my favorite bottle companies. We have several Hydro flasks at home that hold different sizes. All of their bottle and tumblers hold and cold drinks for several hours and is strong enough to withstand much abuse from an outdoor lifestyle. The best part about Hydro Flasks is the lifetime warranty. I’ve returned several bottles that have rusted or lost its ability to hold a drink’s temperature. 

Activity Tracker

If dad is super active, check out this Garmin Activity Tracker. It counts steps, workout intensity, distance, calories, and monitors sleep. This activity tracker will help him stay on track with his fitness goals in an easy to use app.

Mushroom Growing Kit

Is your dad a fan of mushrooms? Back to Roots has a Mushroom Growing Kit that will sprout organic oyster mushrooms in 10 days. The company even has a 100% Guarantee to Grow policy where they’ll replace it or give you a refund if your mushrooms don’t grow. A mushroom growing kit is a fun way for dad to grow his own food. 

Cold Brew Kit

If dad is a fan of coffee, create a cold brew kit for him to make his own coffee at home. Primula’s Cold Brew Maker is large enough to make a week’s worth of cold brew coffee and it even comes with a fruit core to infuse tea and other drinks. We’ve been using this cold brew maker for a couple of months and love how easy it is to use. It really reduces the bitterness and acidity of coffee that I don’t need to add any sugar. Pair it with Seattle’s Best Organic Coffee

Plant Trees

For the dad who has everything, you can plant trees for dad through Click a Tree. Trees for the Seas help plant mangrove trees in Madagascar and Indonesia which provide a habitat for small marine wildlife. Trees for Tuskers plant trees in Thailand, Kenya, and India for elephants. Trees for Entrepreneurs plant trees to support local entrepreneurs in Ghana. Consider planting a tree for dad in his honor to support these amazing causes.

I hope you enjoyed this list of interesting and unique gifts for Father’s Day. Many of these gifts are eco-friendly which is another reason why you should get them.

What gift do you plan to get the dads in your life for Father’s Day? Comment below.

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7 Ways to Reduce Food Waste at Home

Food waste is a real problem in the United States. According to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, food waste is estimated at between 30-40 percent of the food supply. This means BILLIONS of pounds food going to the trash instead of feeding families in need. 

Why should you worry about food waste? Imagine going to the grocery store and buying $100 worth of groceries. You come back home and dump 40% of it in the trash. Sometimes it’s a gallon of milk you didn’t finish or vegetables that have rotted in your fridge. You just wasted $40 of your hard-earned money. 

This is a real problem for many families including mine. We buy too much food, we don’t use it before it goes bad, or we forget about it. Here are some tips that we have used to reduce food waste in our home:

Make a Plan

I take time to inventory what we have to use up in the fridge to figure out what to cook for the week. This goes on on our family dry erase board. If there are ingredients we are out of, we would add them to our grocery list. To illustrate how I do this, I’ve created a FREE Mix and Match Meal Planner to help you figure out your weekly meals based on what you have on hand. 

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While grocery shopping, you can avoid food waste by buying half the fruit or vegetable. You can also do this by being mindful of how much you are buying and wasting each week and adjusting what you buy.

We have stopped buying whole gallons of milk because we end up throwing away half a gallon. When I buy milk, I also make sure that the expiration date is at least three weeks away so we have time to finish the milk. Note that expiration dates are guidelines but you should try to finish your food way before it expires to avoid food waste.

Ingredients with Multiple Recipes

Our grocery list usually consists of ingredients that we can use in multiple dishes. If you want to try a new recipe that has ingredients you don’t regularly use, see if you can find substitutions for them, get them in small portions, or ask friends/family if they have some you can use.

For a lactation cookie recipe, my fellow mom friend gave me some brewer’s yeast just for this recipe. This saved me from wasting the leftover yeast since I don’t use this on a regular basis. If you really have to buy an ingredient for your recipe, make a huge batch of the entree to freeze so you can use it all up or find other recipes where you can use this ingredient.

Freeze Food

We like to buy food in bulk or when our favorite items go on sale. With a family of three, we know we can’t finish all that we buy in one week. Therefore, we freeze most of our bulk groceries as soon as we get home. Meat, spinach, fruit, and muffins do really well in the freezer. We also like to buy frozen vegetables like stirfry mixes because it’s easy to incorporate into dishes and we don’t have to worry about it rotting.

Donate Excess Food

Many local agencies and food banks are feeding more families due to the impact of COVID-19 so they are in need of your excess food. Over the years, we have donated canned food to Aloha Harvest via my church and to Aloha United Way via my work.

When I was a temporary worker at Aloha Harvest, our drivers would collect food from restaurants, cafes, hotels, and parties. If you have a birthday party with a lot of leftover food, consider giving it to Aloha Harvest. Your food will be a gift to families in need. 

Share Food

If you shop at warehouses like Sam’s Club or Costco, you can split the cost of certain items with family or neighbors. Even though we all have Costco memberships, my friends/neighbors and I have shared bulk items like bread and eggs. You save money from buying in bulk but you also save money from not wasting food. 

chicken and mushroom pesto pizza on naan bread
Chicken and mushroom pesto pizza on naan. I wanted to finish up the pesto sauce, mushrooms, and naan.

Leftover Day

We eat a lot of leftovers at home because we make big batches to save us cooking time. About once every two weeks, we have a leftover day where all of our meals are various leftovers here and there that we want to finish. This keeps us from throwing away good food and challenges us to be creative in eating our leftovers. 

Mishmash Recipes

If you find yourself with one or two pieces of a certain ingredient, you can incorporate them into a mishmash recipe like a smoothie, soup, stew, stirfry, or fried rice. If I have a bunch of random fruits, I like to throw them into a smoothie. If I have a lot of vegetables, they are added to a stirfry with whatever protein and sauces I have on hand. You should try to master the basics of these types of recipes because they come in handy when figuring what to do with your leftover ingredients. 

Although we have reduced the amount of food waste we are producing, we still have more to do eliminate food waste in our home completely.

What are some ways you reduce food waste at home? Comment below!

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Mother’s Day Gift Guide 2020

Mother’s Day is just around the corner but we are stuck at home due to COVID-19. I’ve been thinking about what to get my favorite moms for Mother’s Day. It’s hard because you want to find the ideal gift to show them how much you love and appreciate her. You want something that she hasn’t gotten before but you also want something that she’ll really enjoy.

In preparation for Mother’s Day, I’ve been researching the perfect gifts to give this year. I’ve also been secretly exploring some ideas to drop hints to my husband. Hehe! Because of this, I’ve put together a list of fresh ideas to get mom for Mother’s Day:

DIY Spa Kit

Since you can’t take mom out to get her nails done or get a massage, send her some products to have a spa day at home for Mother’s Day. You can send her a bath and body gift set with her favorite scents or a foot spa. You could also send mom a deep tissue massage gun to break through those stress knots you gave her when you were a kid. Personalize the kit with gifts that you know mom would love. 

A Nap

A 2-hour nap with the door closed would be a dream for a breastfeeding mom like me. Hint hint! You could get mom new pillows, noise-canceling headphones, and blackout curtains to fully block out any distractions. You could also promise mom one distraction-free nap a week. This a great way to show mom you appreciate her more than just on Mother’s Day.

Photo Gift

My family all live in different states so group pictures are rare. This is why I like sending personalized photo gifts to my mom and sister. For Mother’s Day, you can send a personalized photo puzzle, pillow, or calendar. You could also get mom a custom Bobblehead of her favorite grandkids, pets, or of you. It’s such a unique mother’s day gift that will definitely bring a smile to her face. 

Subscription Box

A great way to show mom you appreciate her all year round is by getting her a subscription box. CrateJoy offers a variety of subscription boxes for whatever interests mom has at affordable prices. They have subscription boxes of tea, books, games, succulents, Harry Potter gear, and so much more. CrateJoy is a great place to get Mother’s Day gifts for all of the moms in your life. 

Help with Cleaning

Cleaning the house is a neverending task. The dishes pile up every day and floors get dirty right after you clean them. Save mom the trouble by getting her a Roomba robot vacuum for Mother’s Day. This will give her one less task to do and it’ll give her more time to do what she really wants. You can also DIY a coupon book for mom to use when she really needs help around the house. You could add tasks that she really hates doing like washing the dishes or taking out the trash. Kids will enjoy creating and coming up with different gifts to give mom.

Personalized Story

Create a personalized story with the kids to give to mom or grandma on Mother’s Day. You can create a book where you design your own character, story, and pages through LoveBook. You could also put together a photo book with reasons why you love mom. Mom will definitely appreciate all the thought that you put into the book you create. 

Restaurant Meal at Home

Do you usually go out to eat for Mother’s Day? Send mom her favorite restaurant meal using a delivery service like Uber Eats. For breakfast, you could serve her breakfast in bed with a personalized wood serving tray. For dinner, you could set up the kitchen table with candles, napkins, and fancy silverware. Encourage her to wear her favorite outfit and play some nice music so she’ll still feel like she went out to eat for Mother’s Day.

Donate in Her Honor

For the mom who has everything, you could also donate in her honor. Give the gift of meals through your local food bank or through No Kid Hungry. You could also donate money to those affected by COVID-19 such as the Aloha United Way Hawaii COVID-19 Response and Recovery Fund. You’ll not only give mom a gift for Mother’s Day, but you’ll also give a gift to those in need. 

What are you planning to give mom on Mother’s Day?

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Five Simple Steps to Start a Budget

After years of wondering why I was broke so quickly after payday, I realized that I needed to organize my finances especially as my student loan statements and bills started to pile up. I tried different methods and it took me several months to find a system that worked for me. I also changed my payment deadlines to align with my working budget. Then, when my husband and I married in 2015, it took us over a year to consolidate our finances.

Creating a family budget helped us to gain a better picture of our finances. Starting a budget is not fun but it is a necessary tool to help you and your family keep track of expenses, save money, and plan for the future. Here are five simple steps to help you start a budget:

Figure out how much money you’re making

Look at your pay statements. The amount titled “net pay” is what you have after taxes and deductions (work sponsored health benefits, retirement, etc.) have been subtracted. This is what is deposited in your bank account if you have direct deposit or is paid to you as a check. This is the amount that you will use to build your budget.

You must then figure out how often you get paid: weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, etc. If you have an irregular salary or pay date, get an average of your total salary for the past 6-12 months. In addition, you have multiple sources of income (ex: if you are married and/or work multiple jobs), then use the total amount of all income to begin your/your family’s budget. For example,

Husband’s Job 1: $1000 every 2 weeks x 2 pay dates = $2000

Husband’s Job 2: $500 every month = $500

Wife: $1000 every 2 weeks x 2 pay dates = $2000

Wife’s Job 2: $250 every 2 weeks x 2 pay dates = $500

Total Net Income a Month: $5,000

Determine your fixed expenses

Make a list of expenses that have a fixed deadline every month. These include rent, car payments, insurance, utilities, phone, and all debt (credit card, student loans, etc). In one column, list your expenses. In the second column, write down the monthly deadline to pay.  List your expenses in the order of due dates so you can easily see what needs to be paid next.

You could also write down the total amount of debt you owe in a third column so you can see how much more you have to pay down. My spreadsheet has changed so much over time. It’s up to you and your family as to how your information is organized. The important thing is to write everything down so you can check off what has been paid and what hasn’t by the end of the month. 

List discretionary expenses

Write down your average monthly expenses for discretionary expenses. These include food, gas, entertainment, books (if you are a student), subscriptions (ex: Netflix), gym membership, etc. Look at your old bank statements or receipts to figure out how much you spend on these categories.

This is also the area that you will play around with the most to balance your budget. In addition, you should include expenses that occur irregularly like car registration so you can anticipate the payment

If you need help cutting back in this area, check out my post on saving money on groceries, clothes, and eating out.

Look at the bottom line

Calculate the total amount of your income minus the total amount of your fixed and discretionary expenses. This will give you your balance. If you have leftover money, that’s great! You can put it towards paying down debt, savings or another financial goal.

If you come up with a negative number, then you need to adjust your income or expenses so that you can have a balanced budget. For example, you may need to earn more income by getting a second job. You could also cut back on your discretionary expenses such as entertainment or limit eating out to once a week.

In addition, you can reduce your fixed expenses by exploring different options to lower your bills. Some of these include: getting a cheaper phone plan, consolidating your student loans, and finding cheaper life insurance or health care plans (just make sure you don’t cut costs by cutting important benefits you may need!).

Set goals

Setting goals is an important part of creating a budget. Some short-term goals could include paying down your car loan or saving up for a down payment on a house. You must also have an immediate goal of saving up for an emergency fund of 3-6 months’ worth of income.

You shouldn’t just think that your income is just to pay for your day-to-day living expenses. Set up your budget in a way that will help you realize your dreams, such as traveling or starting a business, even on a limited income.

Starting a budget will take some time and work but having a budget will give you a clear picture of your current finances to help you plan for a future that you’ve always wanted.

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Whole Foods on a Budget

“Since when did we become Whole Foods people?” I’ve asked this of my husband every other time we go to Whole Foods. It’s hard to believe that people like us can shop here when we have such a limited grocery budget. I’m also amazed because we live in Hawaii where the cost of living is high, which means Whole Foods was not a place we ever did our shopping.

Recently, we realized that we save more money shopping here than we do at our regular grocery stores! How is this possible, you may ask? Here are some ways we shop at Whole Foods on a budget: 

Amazon Prime

If you have Amazon Prime, you get an extra 10% off sale items with the yellow signs. There are also weekly deals that only apply to prime members. These sales have blue signs and are up to 50% off. To get these deals, download the Whole Foods app and sign-in with your Amazon account. Then, show the QR code on the app at checkout for these savings to apply your purchase. Amazon Prime is the main reason why we can afford to shop at Whole Foods. We’ve found some great prices on beef and chicken that beat the cost at our regular grocery stores and warehouses. Because of these, we usually buy in bulk to put in our freezer for later use.

Some of our favorite Whole Foods haul include:

  • Beef chuck roast (animal welfare certified): $3.99/lb
  • Chicken drumsticks (animal welfare certified): $1.49/lb
  • Bell peppers: $1.49/lb
  • Organic canned beans: $0.79
  • Organic pasta noodles: 1.49
  • Organic Pasta sauce: $1.45

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whole foods receipt
One of our recent shopping trips to Whole Foods.

Hot Bar

We only buy two things at the hot bar: brisket and wings. The hot bar is $11.99/lb which is much cheaper than our favorite BBQ places on the island which cost $11-13 for ½ lb of brisket. For chicken wings, we usually wait for it to be on sale. Recently, we’ve seen it at $3.99/lb, which is a steal for an affordable and quick dinner from Whole Foods.

Read the Circular

Because most products at Whole Foods are out of our price range, I take care to check the weekly circular to see what’s on sale. I’ve signed up for their weekly circular via email so I can easily see what to buy. It takes me no more than 15 minutes to scan the ad and determine our grocery list. Sticking to this grocery list helps us spend less money at Whole Foods because we come in shopping for what we need versus what we want.  

In-Store Brand

We usually buy the in-store brand 365 Everyday Value because of the price. These products are the most affordable products at Whole Foods. It’s just as good as name-brand products and you can find a lot of organic items like pasta, beans, and carrots.

Read more about saving money on food: 10 Ways to Save Money on Groceries.

Pizza

I love Whole Foods pizza. I always thought it was too expensive for us but it’s actually affordable. You can buy two huge slices for $7 or get a whole pizza for around $14-18. It’s just as big as Costco or Sam’s Club pizza but with a better selection of healthy toppings. One way to afford their whole pizza is to snag the $8 cheese pizza deal on Thursdays but note that this is only for Amazon prime members.

Another way to get a good deal on their pizza is to check out their in-store specials. They sometimes have two pizzas on sale for $26 or specials on specific types of pizzas. I got a whole BBQ chicken pizza for $14 last month and I was able to make half of it vegan.

Bring Your Own Grocery Bags

If you bring your own bag, Whole Foods will give you $0.15 back. It’s not much but it’s environmentally friendly and you don’t have to pay for a bag every time you shop. 

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Ibotta Rebate App

After I shop at Whole Foods, I submit my receipt to Ibotta to earn cashback on my groceries. Ibotta is such an easy app to use. You just have to find your store, look for coupons for the things you plan to buy, go shopping, then submit the receipts on the app. You can use Ibotta to earn cashback online and at other retailers like Times Supermarket, Costco, and Target.

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I’m glad that we can afford Whole Foods because we can now eat organic food without costing us a pair of shoes. It’s helping us develop healthier eating habits for ourselves and our son.

Comment below if you have other tips that help you shop at Whole Foods when on a budget. 

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De-stress Your Closet and Shop for Less

A couple of years ago, I read an article from Business Insider about Barack Obama and Mark Zuckerberg wearing practically the same clothes everyday because they have bigger things to worry about than making decisions about clothes. There was also another article about Matilda Kahl, an art director, who wears the exact same shirt and pants to work. She says it saves her time and energy that she could put towards making creative decisions.

Wearing the same clothes everyday resonated with me because, even though I don’t wear the same thing everyday, I’ve been sticking to the same set of outfits to work, church, and home. I’m not a morning person and I’m usually rushing to work so I hate stressing over what top matches what skirt or pants in the morning. By having the same set of outfits to choose from, I don’t spend more than 5 minutes figuring out what to wear. 

On the other hand, when I was in college, I used to go shopping every week and bought a lot of clothes and random items that I sometimes never used. I loved going to sales and getting what I thought were good deals. I also had Old Navy and Macy’s credit cards, which I used online and in-store, but eventually paid down and closed. 

In the last few years, as we’ve been fixing our finances, I’ve become more picky about what I buy for our family. I have specific guidelines for us when we go shopping for clothes: 

  1. Try not to spend more than $10-15 for any one item of clothing except for shoes because it depends on the shoes we need to replace.
  2. The clothing should have at least more than one use: church, work, casual, etc.
  3. It has to be relatively wrinkle free (I suck at ironing!), sturdy (no dry-cleaning, hand washing only, etc) and fits well (I do sit test: If I sit down and the dress or skirt doesn’t cover my knees, I don’t buy it.)
  4. Just because it is cheap, it does not mean we should buy it. (Side note: we once found a pair of size 11 dress shoes at Aldo for $3. It was way too big for my husband but we bought it for a friend of ours who we knew he could use it.)
  5. For my clothing: It has to be modest. This is due to my own personal style. I want dresses at the knee or longer. I avoid cleavage and visibly see-through clothing. I also don’t wear tight-fitting clothing, clothes with visible brands, and I don’t generally don’t get anything sleeveless. 

 These rules help me save money on clothes not just by sticking to a budget but also by buying only what we need, what we truly want to wear, and what fits right. 

I am also trying (trying so hard!) to be more of a minimalist so, every few months, I look at our closet to see what clothes and items we aren’t using or have outgrown to donate,  give away, or sell.

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When I have time, I drop my donations off at Savers where I can get a discount card for donating. I usually get about 20-30% off my next purchase. While there, I briefly look at their racks. I usually look for dresses for me and button up shirts for my husband.

I have found a couple of nice dresses and shirts for both of us that are under $10 and the discount from our donations lowers our cost even more. I know a lot of people say that they can’t find anything when they thrift shop because it’s really a hit or miss. However, I don’t come to Savers expecting to find anything and I spend no more than 30 minutes looking around. If I find something, it’s usually a great find.

If I don’t, then it’s ok. I can use the discount card later. I know some people might find it gross to shop here but, if you look closely, you can find clothes with the tags still on and some that barely look used. I also make sure to wash our clothes after purchasing. I just love that we are recycling clothes and helping the environment by doing this. 

A couple of sandals from Ross
I found these cute sandals at Ross for under $7! Always look for the pink tags!

My go-to store for clothing is Ross because this is where I can meet most of my shopping parameters. I try to look for pink price stickers because this usually means that the price was reduced. I’ve found a skirt for $2, several flats between $2-$8, and dresses under $10.

Just because Ross is a cheap place to buy clothes, it doesn’t mean that they lack in quality. A lot of my clothing and shoes have lasted for several years without fade or tear. Most recently, I’ve been shopping for clothes via Facebook marketplace. I found a bunch of new (with tags!) or gently used Lularoe dresses for $5-8! 

The funny thing is my favorite place to get clothes from is from my sister. I inherit hand-me-up’s (she’s my little sister!) dresses, tops, shoes, etc from her about once a year. We are about the same size and she has an amazing style, so I get excited when she says she has clothes to give me that she doesn’t use.

I was actually inspired to write this post because I had so many people asking me where I got all of my dresses, and I’m proud to say I got it from her. Because my nephews are a couple of years older than my son, she also sends me a lot of their old clothes and shoes. This has saved me a lot of money since my son outgrows his clothes every couple of months!

We do buy clothes for my son, mostly for special occasions at church, but the bulk of his clothing are hand-me-downs. Once he outgrows them, I try to give them to friends who are expecting or who have babies younger than my son, sell it on Rhea Lana, or donate it.

I eventually want to learn how to sew so I make our clothes fit better and fix our favorite pieces without paying for alterations. I can do basic sewing, but you don’t want to look under the clothes or you’ll see my ugly patchwork! In addition, there are a couple of pieces of clothing that I’ve held onto for years that haven’t fit but I can’t let go.

If you are like me, it will take you some time to clean up your closet, let go of your favorite unused clothing, and fix your shopping habits but it is definitely worth the savings in time, energy, and money.

How do you de-stress your closet and save money on clothes?

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My First Experience as a Consigner at Rhea Lana

I first heard of Rhea Lana a few months after my son was born. Rhea Lana is a large children’s consignment sale that lasts about 9 days. They have everything from books, toys, clothing, bedding, cribs, walkers, strollers, utensils, and nursing items. I usually find some good pieces of clothing, infant swimwear, utensils, and breastmilk supplies. I especially like shopping on half-off days when almost everything is 50% off. There aren’t many things left at this point but I usually find a couple of things that my son needs. Last Fall, I wanted to try consigning but I thought it was too much work so I tried selling our stuff on facebook marketplace and found that I didn’t sell as much as I wanted to. This Spring, I decided to try Rhea Lana. I would go through the whole process and, if I didn’t like it, then I won’t do it again. 

The first step in participating in the Rhea Lana consignment sale was gathering and organizing all of the stuff you want to sell. I actually started doing this every couple of months since my son was born. Each time my son outgrew something, we’d set it aside in our second bedroom to figure out if we wanted to sell it, keep it, or give it away. This is why our second bedroom is such a mess! 

You also have to make sure you have enough supplies such as children’s hangers, tags, and zip ties to organize the items in the way that they require. Between me, my husband, and our wiggly toddler, it took us 8 hours to get all of our things organized. I collected and bundled stuff I wanted to sell together. I then had my husband take pictures of each bundle and size so I can input it later.

clothes and breastmilk bags
These are some of the 100+ pictures my husband took to help me organize what we planned on selling. I bought these at previous Rhea Lana events. My son used this swimsuit a lot and it was still in good condition! I bought these milk bags for when I pumped milk but I never got to use them before I stopped pumping a few months ago.

It took me about an hour to input everything on the Rhea Lana website. Figuring out the price took the longest time because I was mentally calculating my portion of the sale (each consignor gets 60% of a sale). It also took me another 8 hours for me to add the tags, zip tie shoes, put the stuff in plastic bags, and hang clothes on hangers. Even though I inputted 153 items online, many of them were bundled together such as a set of hats, onesies, and bibs so we really had a couple hundred of pieces that we organized.

Finally, we packed up our bags and boxes and headed to the venue where they were having the sale. With all of our stuff, we barely fit in our Prius but at least it only took us one trip! At the venue, I attached the bar codes to my items’ tag, confirmed that they were sellable with one of the staff, and placed them on the racks or tables. This took me 3 hours to complete but I was finally done! In total, the whole process took 20 hours of work and about $30 worth of supplies.  

I liked that I was able to see in real time how much I was earning. It was pretty exciting seeing what pieces sold on my Rhea Lana account. On the first days of the event, we sold a lot of things, especially our big ticket items like a walker and pack and play. It was probably because it was the weekend and a lot of parents were excited to shop.

From Monday to Thursday, our sales stalled a lot. There were barely any purchases. Then it started again on Friday with the 50% off days and continued on the weekend but it wasn’t much. In total, we sold 94 out of 153 items and got $474.95. Most of what that didn’t sell are going to be donated to local foster families and children in need as I’ve indicated in my online account, but I was able to pick out a couple of things that I wanted back if they didn’t sell. 

Overall, it was a pretty good experience as I didn’t expect to get this much money. My husband actually thought we were only going to get $200 from the sale! It took a long time to get organized but I got the hang of it after a while. I’m just super happy to get rid of all of the stuff we don’t need anymore. What a great way to start 2020! 

Have you tried selling at consignment events like this? Comment on your experience below!

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13 Ways to Save Money Eating Out

My husband and I love eating out. We try our best to limit it to once a week but it’s hard when our schedules are packed that dinner sometimes starts around 10pm. We also like to eat out because it gives us a chance to spend time with our family and friends. Whenever we go out, I try to save money in any way that we can. Some of my favorite ways to save money eating out include:

1. ID Cards: A lot of restaurants offer discounts for military, students, and seniors. Some even offer days where children can eat free. Take advantage of this to save 5-15% off your total meal. In Hawaii, some places also offer Kama’aina discounts which give discounts to local residents who shop or dine in certain establishments. To get this discount, you would need to show your state ID or driver’s license. You can’t use all of your ID card discounts in one purchase but you should figure out which has the highest savings and use that towards your total bill.

2. Specials: It’s best to go to restaurants during happy hour (even though I don’t drink) or when they have late night or early bird specials. They have the deepest discounts for their food and you can sometimes find stuff that you don’t normally see on the regular menu.

3. Eat Out On your Birthday or Anniversary: Some restaurants offer free or discounted meals on your birthday or anniversary by signing up for their email list or through their loyalty cards. Over the years, for my birthday, I’ve received a free drink at Starbuck, free ice cream scoop at Baskin Robbins, free entree at Tony Roma’s, and even free buffet meal at Makino Chaya. Make sure to read the fine line because there are expiration dates and other requirements that you must follow to get the freebie or you’ll end up paying full price.

4. Stamp Cards: If you have a favorite place that you go to, see if they have a stamp or loyalty card. You could get a free drink or a free entree after so many points or stamps. I was able to use it for free drinks at Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf and free pounds of shrimp at a local seafood restaurant before they sadly closed down.

5. Skip the Appetizers or Eat it as a Meal: Appetizers are pricey. Some cost as much as an entree. If I really want to have an appetizer or if I am not that hungry, I usually have it as my entree since there’s sometimes just as much food as a regular entree.

6. Split a Meal: In some restaurants, meals are big enough to share between two people. My husband and I try to share entrees if possible. We would also order a combo, a large, or a side order of additional food so that we pay a little more more food without having to buy full-size entrees. Another way to do this is to each get a different entree then share with each other so you can try two different things for dinner.

A double scoop of gelato
Ice Cream Tip!: Instead of getting two single scoops of ice cream for my husband and I, we get one double scoop and share the cup. This hack saves us a couple of dollars!

7. Coupons: Coupons are not just for groceries. Find coupons through the newspaper or email list. There’s usually coupons for Burger King, Jack-in-the-Box, Popeye’s, and Pizza Hut in our local newspaper. Companies like Baskin Robbins and Tony Roma’s also have coupons when you sign up for their email list. In addition, I use Groupon to get discounted coupons on restaurants. I’ve previously gotten some amazing but limited deals on Starbucks gift cards and restaurants such as Hy’s Steak House.

8. Drink Water: My husband and I try to skip the soft drinks or juices when we order out and ask for water instead. Drinks can add up to $2-$7 to your total bill and they make you full faster. I’d rather spend money on the entree and dessert and skip the drinks.

9. Social Media and Yelp: We frequently use Yelp when we search for places to eat. The Yelp app has some discounts or freebies that Yelp users can take advantage of when they visit a restaurant and check-in on the app. We also like to follow restaurants on Instagram so we can see their specials or discounts they may have.

10: Read Reviews: We also use Yelp to check out the menu and pictures of food before going to a restaurant. I don’t want to spend money on food that we don’t like or food that didn’t turn out the way that I expected it to. It’s a waste of money. I like to spend some time comparing the prices of food for different cuisines along with the reviews and pictures to make sure that we get quality food for the right price.

11. Leftovers: If you are too full or an entree is too big, take it home for lunch tomorrow. You save it from going in the dumpster and you have a ready made meal for the next day. I hate seeing people throw away their leftovers especially when there’s a lot left on their plates. If you don’t want to eat it for lunch, you could always give it away to a homeless person.

12. Complete Surveys: Don’t throw away your receipts! You’ll most likely find a survey or questionnaire with an offer for free drinks or meals when you complete a survey. You can usually find this in fast food restaurants like McDonald’s or Panda Express but I’ve also seen it on the receipts for chain restaurants such as Buffalo Wild Wings. If you visit the restaurant often, then it’s worth completing the survey to get free food or drinks for the next time you come back.

13. Gift Cards: Did you know that you can buy restaurant gift cards at Sam’s Club or Costco for at least 20% off? They have a limited selection of gift cards but, if you find a place that you frequent, it’s a great buy! In some cases, you can combine it with a restaurant coupon for an even deeper discount!

13. Kids Eat Free: There are several chain restaurants like Denny’s that have promotions where kids can eat for free. You just have to check the details with each location as they may be limited to specific days of the week or certain times. If your children are much younger, you could also take them to buffet restaurants for special occasions since they can be free if they are 2 or under a certain height depending on the restaurant.

What is your favorite way to save money eating out?

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How to Bulk Buy Like a Boss

Although we are only a small family, we regularly shop in bulk stores like Sam’s Club and Costco. They are great places to go to for food, electronics, gas, baby supplies, and car maintenance. Over the years, we’ve learned a few tricks on how to maximize our membership.

We currently have both Sam’s Club and Costco memberships. We have both because I was able to take advantage of a Groupon offer of $45 for one year membership plus $20 eGift Card last year. It dropped our membership to $25. I noticed that Groupon regularly has this offer on their website so if you’re thinking of checking out Sam’s Club, this is a good way to do it.

I like that Sam’s Club (and now Costco!) has an app for online shopping. You can pay on the app and set up a pick-up time for your items. This saves me a lot of time and money since I’m not tempted by other items in-store. It also helps me manage our grocery budget since I can see the prices (including sales!) online.

Another great app to use is Ibotta. You can earn money on items you already shop for at Sam’s Club or Costco. All you have to do is download the app, look for offers for things you are planning to buy, go grocery shopping, then upload the receipts to the app.

Grocery haul from Costco
Costco is stepping up their game on organic and healthy foods! I like getting snacks here for my toddler because they help us “hide” the veggies in his diet. We also end up eating some of his snacks too!

Bulk stores are perfect places to shop for toiletries and other non-perishable items. If you’re looking for a specific shampoo, they may not have it but if they do carry your type of brand, it’s usually family size and much cheaper than regular stores. I like to buy items like toilet paper, shampoo, diapers, wipes, cleaning supplies, and laundry soap here because they don’t expire and we end up only shopping for these items a few times a year. We’ve also bought discount movie tickets and gift cards here. They’re such a steal! I’ve bought them as gifts or for ourselves when we want to go out. Don’t be afraid of buying their store brand items like Kirkland or Member’s Mark because they’re just as good and sometimes better than the other brands they carry. In addition, Costco and Sam’s Club have the best prices for gas, car supplies (like batteries), and tires. The gas lines and appointment times for car services are long so you have to make sure to time your visits to avoid the crowds.

I especially like shopping here for party food. The appetizers, desserts, snacks, and pastries are surprisingly yummy and can feed a lot of people. Because of this, we usually get pizza, pastries, cakes, and drinks at Sam’s Club or Costco for our church potlucks (much easier than cooking!). I also love their cake and selection of cake designs. For my son’s first birthday last year, we brought a photo of him to Sam’s Club and they were able to print and enlarge it on the cake. For $36.98, it had 96 servings and I probably had about 10 servings of leftover cake at home! It was that good!

I bought my son’s marbled birthday cake and black cupcakes at Sam’s Club. We just added the sprinkles to the cupcakes and candles to the cake to complete the outer space birthday theme. Our friend took his picture at the beach.

Food waste is a very real problem for us when we bulk buy. There were many times over the years where we threw away eggs, vegetables, and milk because we couldn’t finish them on time. To cut down on our food waste, we freeze fresh food that we know we won’t use up before the end of the week. This includes spinach, ground beef, chicken, fish, mushrooms (although I like to cook them before I freeze them), and muffins.  I also freeze ripe bananas to make banana bread or to add to smoothies later. In this way, we only defrost what we need. If you can, try to split the cost of food or other items with family and friends. Even though my friends/neighbors and I all have Costco memberships, we’ve shared a pack of 5 dozen eggs, two packs of bread, etc because we each have small households.

With proper planning, you can save a lot of money by bulk buying at Costco and Sam’s Club. You don’t have to have a large family and you don’t have to do all your shopping here. You just have to be strategic about what you buy. Are there other ways you save money shopping in bulk stores? 

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How We Saved Over $3K On Our Wedding Flowers

For our wedding in October 2015, we were supposed to work with this wedding florist who came highly recommended. However, not only did it take several months for her to return with a quote, she exceeded our $1,000 budget and gave us a quote of ~$4,600! The most expensive item in the quote was my bridal bouquet which cost $225! We were shocked and angry. It was two months before our wedding and we then had to work with her to adjust our budget, find someone else, or do it ourselves. After taking a few days to talk about it with my then-fiance, we cancelled our contract with the florists, checked out other vendors, and eventually decided to DIY most of our wedding flowers. Our total cost: ~$700.00.

We first figured out what flowers we needed for our wedding and how much we needed: my bouquet (1); bridesmaids’ bouquets (8); boutonnieres for groomsmen, ring bearer, minister, dads, and sponsors (22); church flower arrangements (2); reception centerpieces (50), leis for the moms (3); flower girl flowers (3); and a paper flower wall.

Since we had zero experience in flower arrangements, we thought that we couldn’t handle making the church centerpieces so we decided to outsource these to a local flower shop that didn’t specialize in weddings. We gave them a budget of $75 per vase and ordered two. We talked to them about the shape, flowers, and colors we wanted but we mainly left it up to them since we had a limited budget. We also ordered three white ginger leis from them at ~$8 per lei. Unfortunately, the church centerpieces did not turn out so well. They were very small and were drooping before the ceremony even began. Moreover, they woke me up a few hours before the wedding asking how I wanted the vases to look like. Grrr! I wished we did ourselves knowing my husband’s new talent in floral arrangement.

I then thought it could save us a bunch of money if we used satin flowers for the boutonnieres. I bought these beautiful and real-looking white and pink satin roses on etsy for a few dollars and some gold pins on Amazon which I attached together using a glue gun to make white boutonnieres for our sponsors and pink boutonnieres for the groomsmen, ringbearer, dads, and the minister. It cost ~$2 per boutonniere and took an hour at most to complete all 22 boutonnieres on my own.

For the rest of the flowers, we bought several bouquets of roses, carnations, and baby’s breath from Safeway and arranged them ourselves. A week or so after the wedding florist fiasco, my husband, a few bridesmaids, and I did a practice run for the centerpieces and bouquets by buying some flowers we liked and trying to put it together. It didn’t turn out too well but we learned which ones we liked and how we thought we could arrange them for the wedding. My husband and I also calculated the cost and amount for each type of flower and ordered these from Safeway about a month before the wedding. We looked at other places for flowers too but they didn’t have the right price, variety, and service that Safeway gave to us at that time.

Table with wedding centerpieces
We didn’t have much flowers at our wedding but the reception still looked great!

For the centerpiece, we bought some vases at Walmart for ~$3 each that matched our style and flowers and I ordered some lace ribbon and pearls from Amazon to dress up the vases. My husband, a couple of bridesmaids, and I spent a couple of hours adding the lace and pearls to the vases as soon as we got all the supplies. Then, a few days before the wedding, my husband, groomsmen, and bridesmaids cut and arranged the roses, carnations, and baby’s breath under my husband’s direction (I didn’t do a thing!). They also added some water and boxed them up for easy transportation. We used about 12 of the centerpieces for the church and brought them back to the hotel to use with the rest of the centerpieces for the reception. It cost ~$7 each. The vases took a whole afternoon with just the four of us but adding the flowers took only a few hours between my husband and a handful of our bridal party.

For the flower girls, we used one bouquet of pink and white roses and plucked them from the stem before the wedding ceremony. This cost ~$10 total. I also bought some flower girl baskets for ~$10 on Amazon and added some fabric flowers from Etsy for a few dollars. All three baskets took only a few minutes to complete and fill with flowers.

For the bouquets, I bought some gold glitter ribbon from Amazon and pearl pins from a local store. After my husband and our bridal party picked up the flowers at Safeway, he immediately dove in and tried to make my bridal bouquet at our hotel suite while the bridesmaids tried to make their own. It didn’t turn out so well but my husband eventually got the hang of it that he showed them how to coat the glitter in mod podge (to keep the glitter from getting everywhere!), cut and arrange the flowers in a proper bouquet (rounded and not sticking out), and wrap and pin the ribbon on the flowers. It was very amusing seeing my husband teach our bridesmaids how to make their bouquets. Some of them gave up and made him do it! They were able to finish this in one afternoon and we placed them in some water and kept the hotel A/C on to keep them from wilting. Because my bouquet had more flowers, it cost ~$15 while my bridesmaids bouquets cost ~$7 each.

wedding bouquet
I couldn’t believe my husband made my wedding bouquet!

We tried to keep things as simple as possible since we had a short deadline, no experience, and a limited budget but I thought everything came out beautifully and I was so proud of my husband. I wanted to show you that you don’t have to spend a lot of money on flowers for a wedding. You can still get enough flowers to add color and vibrancy to your wedding no matter the size. We had around 200 people in our wedding and there were enough flowers to fill our reception venue that it didn’t seem too plain or simple. You just have to get creative in looking outside of the wedding sphere and be willing to do it yourself to fit your budget.

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Never Pay for Books Again!: How to Get Books for Free

I love reading and collecting books. I practically grew up in our public and school libraries from elementary to high school. In college, I discovered the astronomical cost of textbooks. The only books I could really afford to add to my bookshelf were textbooks. I could borrow books from our university’s library, but it was mainly academic books rather than the non-fiction I loved to read. I also didn’t use the public library too much during this time since I had other things on my mind: school, church, my job, and social media.

Check out “7 Financial Mistakes I Wish I Didn’t Make in College“!

Overdrive App

Some time after graduating college, I discovered the Overdrive app for the Hawaii State Public Library System. It took me two separate tries (a couple of months apart) to finally figure it out the app. Once I did, I was reading and listening to 2-3 ebooks and audiobooks almost everyday. I enjoy listening to audiobooks when I drive even if the trip only takes me 5 minutes! I also love listening to fiction audiobooks because there are usually different voices for each character, which really make the books come to life (Try The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyers!). 

Random fact: I’ve actually listened to all five books of Game of Thrones via audiobook. It took me a long time but it was worth it. I had to borrow the fifth book 3 times to finish it!

Books on the overdrive app
Audio books I’m currently listening to on the Overdrive App.

Save Money on Books

Borrowing books from the Overdrive app helps me avoid unnecessary spending on books because I used to spend anywhere from $1-$30 for one fiction book. This is also helping me develop a minimalist lifestyle since I borrow most of my books from the library. In the future, I’m going to transition to borrowing children’s books for my son. I’ve bought a couple of books for him to read to him every day but I can’t bear to borrow library books when he’s still at the stage where he throws, tears, and bites his books!

Read my post: “3 Toddler Parenting Hacks to Encourage Reading“!

How to Use the Overdrive App

The overdrive app connects with the Hawaii State Public Library System. You will need to use your library card number and PIN number to sign in and borrow books. They have hundreds of fiction and nonfiction books available as a pdf, ebook, or audiobook. The library allows you to borrow a maximum of 10 books for up to 21 days. A few days before the book “expires”, you can request the book again if someone is not waiting for it. If a book is unavailable, you can recommend that the library get it.

The app allows you to listen to audiobooks but you need the kindle app (and an Amazon.com account) to read ebooks. PDFs, on the other hand, are only available via the web browser. The app is also available for android phones, iphones, ipads, nook tablets, kindle readers, mac computers, and window computers. You can easily read and listen from one device to the next! If there are books that are unavailable in Overdrive, you can recommend the title to the library. You will be added to the wait list for the book as soon as it is purchased by the library. I was amazed to find that they had children’s books, manga, and even new releases.

Most people I know have never heard about the Overdrive app. It’s free, easy to use, and you’ll have access to hundreds of books in the palm of your hand!

Comment below with your favorite book in this app!

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10 Ways to Save Money on Groceries

The cost of living in Hawaiʻi is high, especially in housing and groceries. To save money, my husband and I try to cook at home as much as possible. Over the years, we’ve figured out how to spend less than $5 per serving of food. Some of the ways we save money on groceries include:

1. Peruse Weekly Ads

Most of the items we cook are based around what is on sale for that week but I don’t take too long when scanning weekly ads. At most, I take about 5 minutes to see what’s on sale and to come up with a menu of what we should have this week. To do this, I’ve signed up for the weekly ads for some of my favorite grocery stores like Times Supermarket, Costco, and Sam’s Club. Some of the items I typically look for are: rice (>$8 for 15 pound bag), mushrooms (2 for $4), pasta noodles ($1 each), beef (>$6/lb), and diapers and wipes (I look for sales that come out to $0.03/diaper and $0.01/wipe). Recently, since we’ve had Amazon prime membership, I’ve been checking Whole Food weekly sales ads and found some good deals on food ($3.44/pound for chuck roast and $0.50 boxes of Annie’s Mac N’ Cheese)!

2. Use Coupons

I am not a regular couponer but I do keep several coupons in my bag for groceries, toiletries, and restaurants that I know I will use. I then wait until the items go on sale and use the coupons so I can get the items for less. Spam, for example, sometimes goes on sale for $1.99 (regular price: ~$2.49) and I find coupons for $1.00 off two cans in the Sunday newspaper every month or so. The couple and sale will bring the cost down to $1.49 per can. You can also use coupons through the Ibotta app. You just have to download the app, scan the store for offers, shop, and upload a copy of your receipt.

3. Buy in Bulk

Even if you have a small family, you can still buy in bulk to save money. For example, we buy a huge package of ground beef at Costco then divide it up into smaller baggies to freeze for when we need it. We also try to buy frozen vegetables, fruits, and seafood in bulk because it’s easier to store and keep for later meals. In addition, household items such as toilet paper and paper towels are inexpensive when you buy it at Costco or Sam’s Club. You don’t have to worry about catching it on sale so you save time and money. It’s hard to buy fruits, veggies, and milk in bulk unless you plan to finish it in one week. It’s cheaper than regular packages but you end up wasting most of it because it spoils fast. 

Check out my post “How to Bulk Buy Like a Boss“!

4. Bring Your Own Recyclable Bags

O‘ahu has banned the use of plastic bags in grocery stores so you should remember to bring your own recyclable bags when shopping. Unfortunately, there are still some loopholes in the law so you can still see plastic bags in several supermarkets. Some even charge you $0.05-$0.10 for each plastic bag which can add up when you are buying a bunch of groceries for the week. On the other hand, some places, like Times Supermarket, give you a bag credit of $0.05 for each recyclable bag that you use at the store so be sure to bring them whenever you shop. I usually keep all of the recyclable bags in each of our cars so we have it ready when it’s time for us to go grocery shopping. 

5. Get a Free Store Card

Safeway and Foodland offers free store cards to their customers to take advantage of cheaper prices in the store. Nowadays, you don’t even need to show your card if you link your phone number. You can just input your phone number in the keypad and it will pull up your account. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve seen people shop without using the free store cards. They spend a lot more money paying for regular prices when it will take them only 5 minutes to sign up for a card. On the other hand, Safeway offers additional coupons that customers can access through their online account or Safeway app. I have used their coupons to get even more savings for cereal when it’s on sale. 

6. Ask for Half the Vegetable or Fruit

In Don Quijote, you can ask one of the staff near the produce department to cut a larger vegetable in half for you (I didn’t want to be eating cabbage all week!). They’ll wrap one half for you to buy and the other half for another customer who may want it. It doesn’t hurt to ask the produce department if they do this. Some might not offer this service at all. If they do, this will help you save money and avoid food waste.

Bananas at a supermarket
I saw this cute sign at a grocery store in Guam.

7. Earn When You Shop

CVS gives you 2% in ExtraBucks if you use your free ExtraCare card. They are issued 4 times a year and will show up on your receipt for future purchases at CVS. Foodland’s free Maika’i card allows you to earn points for every dollar you spend. After you accumulate 250 points on your card, you will receive a my Rewards Certificate with your receipt. This can be used towards special product savings, 5% off a future purchase, or 200 HawaiianMiles (I usually put it towards miles!). As a side tip, my husband and I keep our Maika’i cards in our cars for when we need to fill up on gas and Costco is closed. You can get $0.05 off per gallon if you pay in cash at any Aloha/Island Mart gas stations. Both types of rewards have expiration dates so be sure to redeem them on time.

8. Get a Rain Check

Safeway and Times Supermarket, offer rain checks to customers when sale items are sold out. This allows customers to come back and buy the items at sale prices when they are again in stock. Make sure to read the fine line on the rain check and review the company policies because there may be limitations to what you can buy and how long the rain check is good for.

9. Buy Store Brand Items

Store brand items are much cheaper than name brand items and are just as good. I buy store brand canned vegetables, broths, condiments, and tomato sauce when it’s cheaper than brand name items, but I usually do this for household items such as shampoo, face wash, conditioner, and lotion because the savings are greater. Safeway even has its own line of organic products which are much cheaper than name brand organic items.

See how you can save money on organic products at Whole Foods by checking out my post “Whole Foods on a Budget“.

10. Price Match

Target will match the price of competitors’ ads online or in print. I once found that the price of diapers and wipes (I bought them for a baby shower!) were lower on Target.com than it was in-store. I checked with the cashier and they were able to price match these items. Price matching helps you to save time and money since you don’t have to go to multiple stores to catch sale items. Make sure to read the company policies on this too.

What are some of the ways you save money on groceries? Comment below!

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7 Financial Mistakes I Wish I Didn’t Make in College

The cost of higher education is rising every year leaving many students in debt before they begin their first job. First-generation students, like me, enter college without learning how to balance a budget, manage finances, and save money. Looking back, I made a lot of poor financial decisions that added to the amount of debt I accumulated after college.

Some of the financial mistakes I wish I didn’t make in college include:

1. Unnecessary Spending

I had two cars during my college years (one was totaled in an accident). I needed a car but I didn’t need to get an expensive and gas guzzler car. My car also came with additional expenses I didn’t expect like car insurance, registration, gas, and parking.

Other things I bought that I now regretted include a TV, an organ, and a bunch of random items that I don’t even remember getting. When first moved to Hawaii for college, I brought two luggage and one box. When I graduated, I had 10+ boxes of random stuff not including all the appliances I accumulated.

Part of the reason why I spent so much is that I didn’t have a limited budget compared to when I was in high school. This led me to become a bit of a shopaholic. This habit stopped after a few years and I rarely buy on impulse anymore but all these expenses have definitely added to my debt today.

2. Went to an Out-of-State University

I had to worry about living expenses, health insurance, housing, and transportation especially during the summer. I would’ve saved thousands of dollars in housing and tuition staying at a college close to home but I wanted to live somewhere else. Unfortunately, I did not think about how much money I needed to stay here until I actually got here.

Thinking back on this, I wish I attended community college for my first two years than transferred to the university since classes were smaller and tuition was lower.

3. Changed my Major Multiple Times

It is ok to be undecided for a semester or two while you are trying to figure out what you want as a career. After all, college is about figuring out who you are. However, there comes a point when you are spending too much time and money deciding your major and future career.

I changed my major at least 4 times in college. There were a lot of courses that I spent a lot of time and money on because I was pursuing various fields I thought I was interested in.

Fortunately for me, I had a great academic advisor. She made sure I was completing the other general education requirements while I was exploring my options so that I still graduated in four years.

4. Did Not Take Advantage of Free On-Campus Resources

One year, I got a 24-hour Fitness gym membership even though there was free use of the gym on campus. There were also free workshops, tutoring, and resources I didn’t use that could’ve helped me with my schoolwork.

All the academic and student support was there for me but I only used about 10% of it. In addition, I didn’t take advantage of the career center until a month after I graduated!

5. Got Additional Debt

For the summer, I applied and received additional student loans to help me pay for summer school and housing instead of applying for scholarships or going back home. I didn’t need to stay in Hawaii but I wanted to. I also got a credit card to help me pay for my living expenses for a summer study abroad program.

Because of this, I actually accumulated more debt during my summer semesters than during the regular semesters! I did not do a good job of budgeting for my summer expenses.

6. Did Not Actively Apply to Additional Scholarships While in School

I knew I needed more money but I didn’t seek out more funding during my college career. During my first few semesters, I applied to a couple of scholarships but when I didn’t get it, I just gave up. I resigned myself to applying for more loans thinking that it would be easy to pay off later.

This was a big financial mistake as I was leaving money on the table. I didn’t think about how it would affect the future me.

7. Did Not Take Advantage of Internships or Other Career Opportunities Early on

During my four years of college, I was only concentrating on the academic and social parts of higher education. I didn’t think to start on internships or jobs related to my major until my senior year of college. I didn’t have much on my resume so I was scrambling to find things to do just for my resume.

Looking back, I was actually a poor candidate for the job market especially after the 2009 recession. I knew several people who did not find jobs in their career (or didn’t find any job at all!) after 6 months – 1 year after graduation. Only through the help of the career center was I able market my skills and experiences that I got a job two months after graduation.

My undergraduate graduation ceremony
I graduated from the University of Hawaiʻi at Mānoa in May 2015.

Despite the high cost, college is important because it significantly raises your earning potential over your lifetime. The experiences and relationships I’ve gained have also had a large impact on who I am today. However, students should be strategic in how they spend their money and do their best to avoid loans and overspending. I’m glad I took advantage of one of my job’s benefits and later got a master’s degree for free.

I wish I didn’t make these financial mistakes in college because it’s going to stay with me and my family for a long time. Hopefully, many of you will learn from my experience so that you can graduate and achieve your dreams without debt holding you down.

Share this post if you’ve experienced the same financial mistakes in college.

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